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Awesome lesson/technique for life and work! (And definitely B!!!)

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Great read, thank you for being so transparent. Sharing with my partner.

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So much wisdom in this article. My favorite: "That’s because kids are like water. They find the cracks between you and wear you down."

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B! This is a great article. I'm a senior at Duke, funny enough, and lived in Bassett on East Campus during freshman year. Any chance that's where you were?! Thanks again for sharing your experiences, what works, and why.

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B forever and ever. This feels like one of the longer posts you’ve written. But it reads really smoothly. Good reminder that we’re always renegotiating ie evolving, whether with others or ourselves. It’s a beautiful dance.

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This is very insightful and timely!

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awesome reading! I go with B now the I own the house (used to be C of course)

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It’s great to see an example from a lawyer about negotiating not arguing.

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Enjoyed reading this. Shared this with my partner as well. I guess weekend we are set for the same discussion.

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Thank you for sharing.

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